FAQ’S

DescrAt Rebirth, safety is paramount. If we don’t feel safe, we can’t get curious and surrender into pleasure.  At the heart of feeling safe is being clear with your needs, wants and desires, asserting and enforcing these. 

Consent is central to feeling safe. Upon joining Rebirth, every member will be required complete a Consent training online prior to attending an event.  At the start of every event we also have a group chat with all attendees to confirm and commit to respecting consent in the space.  The rule of thumb is if it’s not a Fuck Yeah, it’s a Fuck No. 

All members go through a selective process to ensure they align with our values of respect, consent, and care. Our events are curated with experienced hosts and guardians who are trained to uphold boundaries and create a safe space for exploration. Every event is designed to nurture consent-based interactions, ensuring that you feel secure at every step. 

Any member who violates the Code of Play at anytime at an event or in the community will be immediately asked to leave and their membership will be revoked for life.  There are no second chances or refunds.

We can only keep Rebirth safe if we know about incidents that feel unsafe.  While it can be difficult to report an incident, please do either at the time or after it happens.  There is no stature of limitations.  We always want to know about any behavior that violates the safe playground we are co-creating here at Rebirth.  iption text goes here

Your privacy is as important to us as your pleasure. We use discreet entry processes and never share your personal details. Our events are invite-only, and we ask that all members respect each other's anonymity.

What happens at Rebirth stays at Rebirth.  While you may want to share you amazing experiences with others, all Rebirthers commit to never sharing or making assumptions about anyone else’s experience.  No identifying information of any other member must ever be disclosed.  Ever.  If this is violated, you will be asked to leave Rebirth immediately.  There are no second chances or refunds.

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We offer flexible membership plans to suit your level of engagement:

• 1-Month Plan: $34.99 Perfect for exploring what Rebirth is all about.

• 3-Month Plan: $59.99 Dive deeper and get more value as you immerse yourself in the experience.

• 1-Year Plan: $149.99 Unlock limitless doors to a full year of connection, play, and discovery.Description text goes here

Joining Rebirth is stepping into a world where everything revolves around you and your desires. From the moment you're in, you’ll be matched with 2-4 other Rebirthers for every event, ensuring you’re connecting with those on the same wavelength. Each event starts with a warm welcome—time to settle in, meet your matches, and feel the vibe.

Once the doors close, the real experience begins. We create a safe, intentional space where nothing gets in the way of your exploration. Through guided moments, we help you ease into connection, melt away any nerves, and let the energy of the night take over.

From there, it’s all about discovery—whether you’re looking for intimate connection, a playful spark, or simply want to explore at one of our curated stations. Every event is designed just for you, to let you play, explore, and dive deeper into your desires without any pressure.

At Rebirth, it’s all about real connections, real pleasure, and real experiences—tailored to you. So if you’re ready to unlock your desires and meet people who are here for the same, this is your space. description

Rebirth is a private, curated community designed specifically for midlife adults, where the focus is on real-life connections and authentic experiences, not endless swiping or random matches. What sets Rebirth apart is our highly selective onboarding process. We carefully match you with potential partners based on your desires, readiness, and openness to play, ensuring that you engage with people you actually want to connect with.

Unlike other play parties, our events are curated to meet your specific desires, whether you’re seeking friendship, relationships, or playful exploration. You’ll attend events where everyone is aligned with your values and journey, so you can feel confident stepping into spaces where you’re truly seen and respected. We’re not just a play party—we’re a collective that celebrates sexual exploration, genuine connection, and pleasure, all within a community that fosters trust, respect, and reciprocity.

At Rebirth, our focus is on creating genuine, meaningful connections that align with your desires and readiness. We go beyond simple matchmaking algorithms by curating connections that are based on who you are, what you're looking for, and how you approach intimacy and play. This is why we require video responses during the application process.

Your video responses help us understand more about you—your energy, intentions, and comfort level—far more than words alone. We use this insight to ensure that we match you with people who share your interests and desires, and are on similar paths of exploration. This allows us to invite you to exclusive events tailored to your specific journey.

By getting a sense of your readiness through the videos, we can guide you toward the events and experiences that suit you best, whether you're just starting to explore or ready for deeper play. Each curated event offers a supportive space for you to meet potential partners in a way that feels natural and aligned with your own journey, without pressure or expectation.

Ultimately, our matching process is about fostering authentic, respectful connections that honor your boundaries and desires, giving you the space to explore in ways that feel right for you.

If you’re new to exploring with others, we recommend starting with Innocence Awakened, our gentler connection experience where touch isn’t required. It’s perfect for those wanting to ease into the space and explore connection through conversation and presence before diving deeper.

Rebirth is for midlife adults aged 40-60 who are seeking deeper connections, whether through friendship, relationships, or play. We welcome those who are curious, open, and ready to explore their desires.

What makes Rebirth unique is that our events are curated specifically to you—your needs, wants, and desires.

Some events are designed exclusively for singles looking to explore relationships, while others invite both singles and couples who are seeking friendship, relationships, and play partners.

By 40, we’ve all lived life—sometimes gracefully, sometimes not. But we’ve made it through, and now it’s time to embrace what we truly want. Rebirth is a community of like-minded, equally mature individuals who believe that reciprocity is what makes play and ecstasy possible. No 20-year-old models here. And if that offends you, Rebirth isn’t your bag, and that’s totally cool.

Transparency is key: if you’re in a relationship and don’t disclose it, we consider that unethical. You won’t be admitted, and if we find out later, your membership will be revoked with no refunds given.

If you value respect, authenticity, and exploration, Rebirth offers a community where we live life lead by pleasure, together, connected.Item description

At Rebirth, we take great care in selecting members who align with our values of respect, inclusivity, and pleasure. That's why we require video responses during the application process—seeing you in real time helps us understand your energy, readiness, and openness.

Our onboarding assessment looks for key traits like emotional readiness and communication skills. For example, we assess how comfortable you are with discussing boundaries and how open you are to exploring new connections. These criteria ensure that everyone who joins is aligned with our community values and is ready to engage meaningfully.

Through this process, we make sure that the people you meet are on the same wavelength, ready to create authentic connections in a playful, respectful environment.Item description

Yes! We understand it can feel more comfortable to explore with someone you trust. You can bring a guest to select events, but they must apply and be approved in advance, even if it’s the week of the event. If accepted, guests will need to join Rebirth for at least a one-month membership to ensure they align with the community’s values and have the full experience.

Absolutely not. Consent is at the heart of everything we do at Rebirth. The true power of pleasure lies in asserting your needs, wants, and desires—and that's what makes the experience so juicy. You're always in control of your experience, and we celebrate your ability to claim what feels right for you.

Whether you’re attending a social mixer or an intimate gathering, there’s no pressure to touch, be touched, or engage in anything beyond your comfort level. Every connection you make and every moment you share is driven by what you desire. It’s about creating the freedom to explore, to say yes when it feels right, and to say no when it doesn’t. The beauty of Rebirth is that it’s entirely on your terms—asserting your boundaries is just as powerful as leaning into them.

At Rebirth, pleasure is about knowing what you want and confidently choosing how to express it, making every interaction more meaningful, respectful, and ultimately more fulfilling.

Your safety and comfort are our top priority at Rebirth. We understand that in moments of discomfort or feeling triggered, your body might freeze, making it harder to assert or enforce boundaries. That’s why we’re here to support you in reclaiming your agency. At Rebirth, you are always in control of your body, and we encourage you to voice what feels right for you.

If your boundaries are violated or you feel uncomfortable at any point, report it immediately to one of our event hosts or guardians. We have a zero-tolerance policy for any behavior that disrespects boundaries, and our team is trained to step in and ensure your well-being. Additionally, you can file a report through our confidential online form, and we’ll address it promptly.

While you are responsible for your body, we are here to support you every step of the way. Rebirth is a space where your agency is respected and upheld—whether you’re asserting your boundaries or exploring new ones, you’ll always have our full support.

Yes! Yes! Yes! Rebirth is an inclusive community where people of all sexual orientations, gender identities, and relationship structures are welcome. We celebrate diversity and ensure that all members feel respected, seen, and heard.Item description

We love when our members help grow the community. You can support Rebirth by sharing your experiences, referring like-minded friends, or volunteering at events.Togetehr we are co-creating Rebirth.  We welcome your feedback to ensure we continue offering the most enriching and pleasurable experiences.  As we build Rebirth, we are inviting in investors who believe in the mission of Rebirth.  If you or someone you know has a space or financial ability to support the Rebirth movement, please reach out. Cheers!

We’re here to help! If you have any questions or concerns, you can reach out to us at our contact form or speak to an event host during any gathering. We’re always happy to assist you.